(Though this example borders on being to overtly sexual. A guy who asked me for online dating advice had this on his profile: A girl reading that knows it’s probably bullshit, but it’d make her laugh, show her he’s funny, and that he has interesting experiences to share.
I’ve actually dropped full stories and dialogues into my profile.
For example, imagine a profile opening with this: Me: Hey, what should I put in my profile? Indian Roommate: I hope you don’t get laid, and I never have to clean that up again.
Indian Roommate: Write that you always practice safe sex. If I wrote “I’m funny, get laid a lot, and have a big penis,” no one would ever believe me.
I know because you leave your Magnum condoms littered all over our shared bathroom. Because I used a story, it wasn’t qualifying or approval seeking, and girls pick that information up from the details.
For inspiration, check out delicioustacos list of 44 OKCupid Openers, but write your own to filter for your personality. The goal of messaging is to get a number or meetup. If your first message doesn’t hook or you get a shit-test, pass the shit test and hook first.
An example: Once you meetup, treat it like a regular date.Try writing something like: If you write that, expect a couple messages asking “lol – what movie did you show her? Girls will disqualify you for one bad line, but it might take three to a message. People forget that Tucker Max initially became famous from a hook-up application on his website – i.e. In it, he wrote girls could come over to do his laundry for him.” By leaving out a crucial detail, or not telling the end of a story, you leave an open thread for women to start a conversation. You have to hook from the first line of your profile – . Keep track of which things girls frequently ask you about, and which never get commented on. It wasn’t because he really needed his laundry done (though a nice bonus), but because girls felt slutty if they came over just for sex.For example, look at these two different versions: I grew up in Brazil, the land of jiu-jitsu and models, where the men have big muscles, and the women have bigger asses.It was heaven for a teenager with high testosterone. I feel growing up in another country has allowed me to acknowledge my own privilege as a white cisgendered male, and appreciate the diversity of other less patriarchal cultures..Writing this way doesn’t just get more girls, it gets the type of girls prefer.