Warning: This will seriously piss off most women and possibly some men. Usually this is the part where older (read 40 ) women accuse me of being misogynistic. All you have to do is walk into one of the numerous upscale restaurants or clubs of New York City.
My clients are successful wealthy men who normally ask to be introduced to much younger beautiful women. The reason successful older men prefer to date younger women is because THEY CAN. His age becomes as irrelevant to her as last year's fashion.
They tend to be untainted by experiences that have hardened older women.
For example, when a woman’s been lied to a lot after years of dating, she always thinks you’re lying to her, too. Younger women are less cynical, and that’s a big draw.” — Alan*, 46 New York, NY For those taking notes, evidently hotter women with less baggage are more enjoyable to date than the other way around. I think this guy might be jumping to conclusions though. A younger woman seems more willing to let things take their natural course.” — Roger, 35, New York, NYThe ego boost helps me maintain my health and vitality “When a guy reaches a certain age, he worries he will see his youth and vitality wane.
But dating a woman in her twenties when you’re approaching 40 is also less demanding; you’re not faced with the same requirements to make a decision about your future.
Is it just about looks and our youth-centric culture? But you might be surprised to learn the real reasons that go way beyond physical attraction: as it turns out, men are a bit more complicated than that! The law of averages means that proportionately fewer women your age are single.
They are perfectly OK with older men dating younger women.
It almost becomes irrelevant to these men (or this article) whether these young ladies are truly in love or are merely out to make better lives for themselves.
I recently had a 78-year-old client who wouldn't even consider a woman older than 50.
If you are 25 years old as you are reading this, let me put this in perspective: That would be like dating a 55-year-old.
I’ll never forget the first time I ever met my ex-husband’s new girlfriend. That’s why when I did a poll on my Divorced Girl Smiling Facebook page last week, asking women to describe their ex-husband’s new girlfriend in one word, I was SHOCKED at the responses I got.
She was beautiful, blonde, much younger than me, and the worst one: NICE! 4 positives: Amazing, caring, sweet, thoughtful 18 negatives: Pig, vapid, ruthless, disrespectful, butter face (which means nice body, ugly face—I had to look that one up), clueless, ignorant, 22, vicious, sloth, harmful, controlling, mouse wife, low-rent, android, yuck, whore, trash.
Well, we already know the answer is because the men are insecure, but we may as well hear the last one out just to be polite: Impressing a younger date is easier “One advantage of dating a younger woman is that you can play ‘cruise director’ — i.e., show her all your secret favorite places that she probably hasn’t experienced yet.