Either way, you could just reassure and encourage her with an abundance of compliments (not too much though).
Talk about her work If both of you are ages away from college, then try talking about work and career goals.
However, if she is enjoying herself, chances are that she would be Keep talking Ask her a lot of questions, but remember to listen to her answers and form new questions around those.
Remember that your lady date may have been hurt from her previous relationship or may still be in love with her ex.
At the same time, you also prefer to start with a clean slate.
Avoid talking about her past Never ask about past lovers on a first date.
In fact, this should be avoided until she initiates the topic herself.
Even when there's mutual attraction, there can be awkward silences that aren't a good sign.
Try a few of the best first date conversation tips that will help you navigate any discussion successfully.Talk about foods you like If the date is taking place at a restaurant or bar, talking about the kind of food and drinks each of you prefers.Not only can you gauge whether or not you share culinary preferences, but the potential topics are endless and provide you with a safe topic of conversation.Do not let her go into the mundane details about how fed up she is with her life.However, people like to brag about their work, no matter how routine it is. These types of non-intrusive personal questions determine how much of a bond exist between the two of you.If you manage to meet her friends several dates afterwards (considering that the two of you are still an item), they are usually the best source to unearth the skeletons in her closet. Look ahead and talk about other things that you could do together in the future.