They may not always know what they want but they are more likely to know what they don’t want, which means they are less likely to waste your time.
Younger men are much more egalitarian, so not only do they bring optimism and joie de vivre with them, they also are interested in the female they are with – me.
I’m very happy to talk about my past but I also talk about my future because I believe I have one. If you are a single guy in his 30s dating a peer-group female she will generally want to know where it is going in terms of marriage and babies, which is not always what the man wants.
I’m not predatory but maybe if I like somebody I will send out a vibe and make eye contact. Toy boys may have no awareness of the mundane tasks of daily living which make a relationship with one almost impos- sible if you have children, especially if those children are still at school.
If that’s being a cougar then label me but I won’t hit on somebody unless I get feedback or they approach me first. If they have been married they have a tendency to be bitter if the marriage didn’t work out, or a bit cynical about women, and the tendency is to bring all that into a new relationship. None of this sounds glamorous but that’s the point.
And it’s not just older single women who prefer the charms of experience over youth.
More than 349,000 are aged between 25-34 and a further 310,000 are aged between 18-24 according to a poll conducted by We asked a Puma and a Cougar to explain the reasons for their preference.
He is determined to do things differently and to make life easy for my ex-husband and me and, by extension, our children.
With a grown-up son of his own he under- stands parenthood and he under- stands my children, who adore him.
Their previous experience tends to make them more sensitive to a woman’s needs.